I’ve never been superlean, and when I gain weight, it goes straight to my belly and it seems that it’s the last place I lose it. I’m in my 40s and my belly fat has been around since high school, and now that my youngest is old enough that I can no longer refer to my tummy as baby weight, I got serious about trying to slim my middle. Strict diets with calorie counting and measuring my food with a scale didn’t work for me — even when I dropped down to 1,200 to 1,400 calories a day, I didn’t lose weight, and I just couldn’t live on so few calories per day. Strict exercise (hello CrossFit five times a week!) didn’t do the trick either. But these are the six things I did to finally lose my belly fat.